Gloria who was at work at the time had a hidden camera put to monitor what her husband was doing with the baby while she was gone the result is a complete shock daddy’s always as children’s best friend no matter what because mothers are overprotective but fathers are fun to be around they’ll perform the most bizarre things with you and be your first criminal accomplice
When she wasn’t around one mother decided to keep an eye on her husband’s activities with their child however what she uncovered while filming would undoubtedly catch you off guard nobody could have expected this but fathers are fathers and that’s the truth gloria set a clandestine camera in the room in order to keep an eye on her husband because her husband was fully ignorant of the hidden camera he was simply being himself with their child
All of those private moments between him and his child were captured on tape and seeing them will definitely remind you of your own time alone with your father the relationship i had with my father is without a doubt the most special the camera brilliantly captures all the sweet moments between the father and son the shambles they both produced with their toys all over the room followed by their near-perfect cleaning job before mommy came are worth witnessing
A father’s time lapse video of what occurs when he and his young kid are left alone at home has gone viral on youtube with over ten thousand views emil timoni 30 of kansas city missouri shot a short film for his wife gloria ramos 31 while she was at work one afternoon to illustrate the fun that occurs when he and his son xavier 21 months old play together in their backyard the couple who first set up camp in a
Spotless living room is observed while exploring an ever-expanding assortment of toys and games emio timoney and his 21 month old son xavier are featured in this time lapse film spending an afternoon together without the wife gloria when they’ve exhausted the possibilities of a basket of soft toys they bring out a toy box and the contents are rapidly strewn about the room before lunch there’s some couch time and
Some piano practice on the corner keyboard followed by some block stacking a child’s chair and playpen have been tossed into the mix however young xavier likes to eat his lunch on an overturned basket as his father sits cross-legged on the coffee table the newlyweds could not be more innocent as they enter the ceremony holding a small basket of soft toys mr timoney and xavier proceed to the trunk after thoroughly investigating all the toys in
The basket toys on the other hand will never be as entertaining as spending time with your father when mr timoney feeds the youngster yogurt a spell occurs and by the time we see them again both of their clothings have been ripped from beneath them obviously this has no influence on xavier’s delight as he retreats to the playpen quickly mr timoney who clamors inside as well
Much to the delight of the young lad appears to think the notion is a good one the bongo drum is the next item on the to-do list and it appears out of nowhere just like the rest of the toys it’s set aside for a diaper change followed by a lightning-fast clean-up that returns the room to its prior level of order when it’s time to dine xavier sits on the coffee table perched on an upended
Basket when they proceed to the tiny child’s recliner for dessert though both of their shirts are stained with yogurt timoni who works in the film industry claimed that he made the video because his descriptions of the mess he and his child make seemed exaggerated motivating him to do so we both have great jobs but our work patterns are very different he told abcnews.com i work regular hours while she works the
Night shift it’s unclear when she has off days all of these adjustments are in the works because we didn’t have a stable daycare yet i’ve been taking erratic days off and spending a lot of time at home with our son during the day it’s also wonderful with only myself and him he continued i eventually became fascinated with getting him toys so i began telling her about our days things like she says this
Home was a wreck a disaster we had a great time all day she then walked into the room which would be spotless xavier spends time in his playpen after lunch where he and his brother have both removed their clothes mr timoney on the other hand thinks it’s all a lot of fun and chooses to join in he adds that he makes a lot of films for his wife and that he knew she’d appreciate this one in particular yet the video’s online success caught him
Completely off guard it was an odd experience she says my wife’s gonna like this he continued referring to the fact that the house was tidy at the end of the day and that he changed his diaper that was also my first thought however it appears that it had the potential to be important after receiving some unexpected responses mr timoney had been hailed by many youtube viewers for not putting xavier
In front of the television with one calling him parent of the year the community has reacted positively to mr timoney’s efforts a few even came up to him and asked whether he had a single brother in contrast he maintains his modesty telling abc news that all you ever want to do is show people who you really are that’s not something you can do with words i meant to show my wife what she already knows but she’s already seen it
Says the author emotional incest also known as covert incest is a parenting dynamic in which a parent seeks emotional support from their child when that support should be sought from an adult connection despite the fact that emotional incest might have similar results to physical incest it does not include sexual abuse when i work with patients in therapy who are stuck in their development many of them reveal that when they’re younger
They were the person their parents went to for counsel or emotional support children in this position may feel special or privileged because their parents share adult information with them and or look to them for support resulting in a bond between them and their parents however if the child’s needs are ignored in favor of the parents needs the long-term developmental consequences can be devastating
It goes without saying that parents and their children want to be close on the other side in positive parent-child relationships parents prioritize their children’s emotional needs rather than expecting their children to care for their parents emotional needs when children are put in the position of dealing with a parent’s emotional needs it creates a negative dynamic in which children essentially take on the job of parents the children have been
Emotionally abandoned denying them the chance to experience childhood when a mature marriage or relationship is on the verge of disintegrating when a parent is lonely or when there’s a fractured family dynamic as a result of adultery mental health issues or addiction emotional incest is most common one or both parents may try to address their emotional needs through their children rather than through other
Adults rather than seeking adult help putting children in the center of a fight or during divorce or separation proceedings can be a way for one parent to undercut the other’s viewpoint collaborating with a child can increase a parent’s trust in the child on the other hand the youngster can be concerned about being pushed to choose sides or protect a parent it’s worth noting that in the vast majority of cases parents who nurture an
Emotional incest dynamic are completely oblivious of the implications of their acts and have no intention of harming their children or themselves in any scenario the consequences are plain and still there children who have experienced emotional incest as children may have a difficult time setting boundaries and getting their needs met as adults especially they have experienced intense guilt
Furthermore their gender and sexuality interactions can have a substantial impact on their ability to retain intimacy in adult relationships which can be harmful as a result of emotional incest children may develop an unhealthy sense of loyalty or duty to their parents resulting in a love-hate relationship with their parents substance abuse feelings of inadequacy low self-esteem and compulsive behaviors
Relating to work sex and eating are all possible consequences of this disorder emotional incest can have a negative impact on the family’s dynamics as a whole in the partnership one spouse is typically isolated and denied opportunities for parent-child connection other children may also be overlooked as a result of the parents focused on the chosen child
There are a variety of ways that may be used to assist people who were victims of emotional incest as children in their healing process the following items are included in the list survivors should seek treatment or counseling from a specialist who specializes in childhood abuse entanglement or codependency and is dedicated to fulfilling their unique requirements
Self-help meetings before attending self-help sessions it’s critical to understand what you’re going through as an emotional incest survivor individual counseling is one way to accomplish this self-help sessions can be a very valuable adjunct to the healing process as well as a means of maintaining recovery after this has occurred in this case self-help meetings based on the 12-step program can be especially
Effective when coping with the dynamics of obsessive-compulsive behaviors which are typically the result of defensive mechanisms created for emotional survival after an emotional incest writing a journal entry about painful topics or events can be immensely beneficial mental health education there is a wealth of information and resources available to
Help educate and increase awareness about emotional incest and its ramifications knowledge is a potent weapon gaining a better understanding of what happened and how it affected your life and relationships can be quite beneficial silently seduced a novel is an excellent resource for understanding and healing from emotional incest when parents make their children partners and when he’s married to mom
How to help mother emeshed men open their hearts to true love and commitment by dr kenneth m adams is a useful resource for men who are married to their moms thanks for reading.